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Dismissing symptoms before finally seeking help

As a new dad, Anthony wanted to make sure he was a fit and active parent and would be able to play sports like football, cycling and hiking as his boy, Alfie, grew up.

So in January 2024, Anthony, from Ryton, near Newcastle, first started running 5Ks. He quickly progressed to longer runs too, but early on in his regime, he noticed some blood in his urine.

My story is a warning to all men to never to shy away from going to the doctor's.

Turning to Google for answers, Anthony felt informed that he had a common runner鈥檚 condition known as 鈥榚xercise-induced haematuria鈥�, so he didn鈥檛 approach his GP at the time.

鈥淚 know you鈥檙e not supposed to, but everyone googles symptoms, and nine times out of ten, 鈥楧octor Google鈥� comes back with answers that are terrifying. But on this one occasion, it threw back that blood in the urine was just something that runners got, so I got on with it and I kept training.

It was four months down the line before Anthony did finally seek help from his doctor, and he鈥檚 so glad that he did.

鈥淟uckily, when it didn鈥檛 go away, I did go to my GP. At first, my GP though the odds of it being something sinister were very slim, because I was a fit and healthy younger man. But he did give me a full MOT and I had bloods taken. Then I got called back to go to hospital for an endoscopy and I found out that very day that I had bladder cancer.

鈥淎 trip to my GP saved my life and my future with my wife Kirsty and my son Alfie. I think that, in a way, Alfie saved my life. If it wasn鈥檛 for him being a new baby in my life and my decision to get fitter for him, then I might not have discovered I had this.鈥�

Opting for surgery and discovering 欧美无码

Anthony is now one year on from being diagnosed with bladder cancer. He has been through a lot, including having his bladder removed. But following his operation, he was delighted to be given the 鈥榓ll clear from cancer鈥� news.

Now he is getting on with family life and seeking new adventures with his wife Kirsty and little Alfie, who is now two.

Treatment options were explained to Anthony on the day of his diagnosis. He explains: 鈥淭here was an option to have radiotherapy treatment and then go through targeted chemotherapy directly into my bladder, or another option to have my whole bladder removed.

鈥淭he option with far better odds of the cancer not returning was to have my bladder removed. I made up my mind there and then that鈥檚 what I would do.鈥�

Anthony said the nurse specialist at the Freeman Hospital in Newcastle who explained the operation to him also suggested visiting Maggie鈥檚.

鈥淢y NHS medical team at The Freeman were brilliant; they saved my life physically, but they also introduced me to Maggie鈥檚, Newcastle from day one, and I believe it was Maggie鈥檚 that saved me mentally and emotionally.

Gaining confidence from meeting others

鈥淏eing told you have cancer is shocking, but Maggie鈥檚 is such a warm and welcoming space where I was able to get help from professional staff. I also found I could speak to other people in a bladder cancer group who had been through my situation.

鈥淛ust being able to meet and speak to others, who had been through it and were still very active and still doing big adventures like cycling from coast to coast really gave me the confidence to go for the bladder removal operation.鈥�

Anthony adds: 鈥淭here were times, especially very early on, when I didn鈥檛 yet have a date for my operation and I felt like I was in the wilderness; life seemed to lose its colour. I felt numb to have been diagnosed and I didn鈥檛 know what the future would hold.

But once I鈥檇 visited Maggie鈥檚 where it was warm and colourful, I knew that they could arm me with all the positive information for going into my operation. Every time I visited, it made me feel much better and I felt confident when I finally went in for my operation a few months later.鈥�

Returning to work and life post-treatment

Anthony had his bladder removal operation in September 2024. Six weeks later he went back to work as an instructional designer and he started exercising again as soon as he could.

He says: 鈥淎t first, I wondered how I would feel about having a stoma. I had a moment where I thought, this is going to be me for the rest of my life. But I now know there is nothing I can鈥檛 do with it.

鈥淎lfie is now two years old and I run around after him all the time. We鈥檝e recently been on a family holiday to Spain, and I鈥檓 currently in training to run the Great North Run this September to raise funds to give something back to Maggie鈥檚 for all their help.

鈥淟ots of men, including friends of mine have said: 鈥業f I was told I had cancer, I would just go into my own head. I wouldn鈥檛 have reached out for help.鈥� And before cancer, I would never have thought this was for me either. But I was happy to reach out for support and to find out that Maggie鈥檚 could support me and my family.

I鈥檝e tried to keep a positive mindset all along. I think that is very important.

鈥淚t鈥檚 good to be able to go to Maggie鈥檚 to get information on your treatment and you can do this at any stage before or after surgery.

鈥淚 found a fantastic book on everything I was going through in the library at Maggie鈥檚 and I knew exactly what was going to happen in my operation. This really helped.

鈥淚t鈥檚 also great to be able to speak with others going through some of the same things because then you can better feel in control knowing that others have come through it. I certainly felt better able to cope and better equipped going into my operation.

鈥淲hen people hear the word 鈥榗ancer鈥� they automatically think, 鈥業鈥檓 going to die鈥�, but what I learned from one of the staff at Maggie鈥檚 was that: whatever a diagnosis throws at you and your family, life is still worth living.

鈥淚 still attend the bladder cancer support group to show others than you can come through this and you can get on with your life.

鈥淚 hope my story encourages other men to get out of their heads and to know that support is available from places like Maggie鈥檚, no matter what age you are. And to know that this support can make your life much easier.鈥�

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